I came across this video a few weeks before Vocal Booth Weekender. It planted a seed to discuss the contents, or at least draw reference to them, in the Farewell Programme. In the end, I decided against it.
I share the video from Alan Watts here for anyone who is remotely interested in how and why my mindset changed over recent times and I also share it in the hope it resonates with others.
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The “Let Them” theory, popularised by Mel Robbins, suggests that we should allow people to act as they choose without trying to control or change them. This mindset fosters self-awareness by helping us detach from the need for external validation and focus on our own reactions and boundaries. In relationships, it encourages emotional resilience and acceptance, reducing frustration and conflict. By embracing the idea that others’ actions reflect their own choices rather than how they view us, we help find inner peace, create better relationships with everyone around us, and a stronger sense of personal worth.
The Let Them theory aligns well with the E-Colours framework, as it helps to identify different personality styles, which enables people to better understand themselves and others. It leads to a heightened awareness that we do not all think and act the same and that we all have different communication styles and behavioural tendencies. By understanding both concepts together, and ‘living with intention’, we can not only enhance self-awareness but vastly improve relationships with all those around us.
For example, if a Red-dominant person is highly assertive and takes charge, instead of resisting or trying to change them, we can “let them” be themselves while setting our own boundaries. A Yellow personality thrives on social interactions, and rather than feeling overwhelmed, we can recognise their need for connection and respond accordingly. Blue personalities prioritise emotions, so allowing them to express their feelings without judgment fosters deeper relationships. Meanwhile, Greens value logic and analysis, and instead of expecting them to be overly expressive, we can appreciate their structured approach.
By applying the Let Them theory with E-Colours, we develop empathy, reduce unnecessary conflicts, and create space for authentic interactions while maintaining our own sense of self. This fun and challenging session will bring all this into focus and could possibly be that starting point for the change of direction in life you have been searching for.
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Rather than wait for the next workshop, why not join me on a One on One Self-Reflection Session, giving you the opportunity to fully delve into your personality style and realise how, with just a few small changes, you can enhance your strengths and address your potential limiters.
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By looking closely at others who possess different Personalities to you, we are able to find areas in our lives that could be improved, whether in a big or small way to bring the best outcomes.
Over the last 3 years or so, without exaggeration, E-Colours has enabled me to improve so many areas of my life and communication skills with others, so much so I became a certified E-Colours Practitioner in order to share my knowledge with you.
You are able to discover your E-Colours for free using the link below.
Despite having drunk alcohol pretty much all my adult life, sometimes to excess, I never considered myself to have a toxic relationship with drink.
In this video I share details of how and why I decided to stop drinking on Jan 1st 2023 and how I found it and how I see life without alcohol in it.
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I’ve been using the tag line “Inspire & Be Inspired” for well over 16/17 years now.
Ever since reading Napoleon Hill’s ‘Think & Grow Rich’ I have been on a constant journey of self-development. My journey will be different to other people’s. I was not motivated by financial success and focused mainly on bringing up a happy family. Things are different now. There is a new energy and a new purpose to my world, now that the kids are grown and I am older & wiser. I love having you along with me on this journey. Thanks to the work I am doing with Mark Wilkinson as one of his Life Coaching Clients, I have been able to shake off the grief of losing close friends and family that held me back. Along with the unwavering support of Michelle we have been able to ‘level up’ in so many ways and continue to do so on a daily basis. Part of this levelling up is to share positive words every day on my FB and IG walls via short REELS.
I could go on and on… I’ll simply thank you again for being here with me.
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My first official E-Colours Workshop was a great success and I am ready to come again, with another opportunity for you to get involved.
I don’t say this lightly… I truly believe that E-Colours is a way of life.
After discovering more about my personality, by highlighting my strengths but more importantly discovering how I can create problems for myself (potential limiters) I have become so much more aware of my behaviour and now live every day with intention. You may have noticed this shift in my energy and attitude over the last few years… well E-Colours is a major driving force behind that.
Sunday 24th March, 4pm – Is It Me: Complimentary Zoom Workshop
In this next workshop, using the wonders of E-Colours, we will take a look at our personality types (did you know there are 12 different personality combinations) and see how we communicate with others. We’ll also look closer at why our way of doing things may not have the desired outcome, leading to misunderstanding and conflict. I’ll provide you with a few simple steps to overcome this and help you change your working and social relationships for the better.
The more eagle-eyed amongst you will notice that this day and time conflicts with my radio show. This is because I know so many of you are free at this time of the week and I’d love your involvement. This is a completely complimentary workshop for all members of my mailing list.
I have over 800 people signed up this mailing list. Only 65 of you are members of Access. Maybe I’ve not done a very good job of explaining what it is?
Can you afford £10 a month?
Access is a giving initiative. Each month, members give £10 and expect nothing in return. The money all goes to good causes. It’s a great feeling. I totally appreciate not every has the same outlook as me and I completely understand that many people simply cannot afford to be involved. However, if you can afford it… why aren’t you in on it ? Ask yourself that.
In 2024 we are, amongst many other things, collaborating with ‘Last Night a DJ Saved My Life’, providing a well to give clean drinking water to a community in Africa or India for 10 years. It will be personalised with a plaque that includes all our names. What a legacy! This is just the beginning. Click here for full details on ‘Have a Drink on Us’
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The 100DNAC are rocking it. So close to being half way through. In the next newsletter I’ll talk more about my journey with alcohol.
GRATITUDE. ALWAYS!
Thank you again for your time and your energy. I am ONLY about community and if you’re one of the crew who have read this far, please take a moment to drop me a reply. It makes me happy.
Respect & Love,
Andy Ward
Complimentary SUNDAY Workshop.
If you feel that you are constantly finding yourself having to work harder than you’d like to have people understand you, then this event is definitely for you!
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January 1st, 2024. 170 people decided to stop drinking, from the first day of the year to the first day of Spring.
Here we are on Day 20 , still going strong. There is an invaluable WhatsApp support group that many fire messages back and forth constantly and the email group read along in silence.
Do you think you have what it takes to stop drinking for 100 days, considering the ever-increasing evidence of how bad alcohol is for you?
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Having been a DJ/Producer & Promoter for many years I found immense pleasure in inspiring others by sharing my music. Along the way, I have built a strong community around me who, in turn, inspire me on to bigger and better things in life. This website is another step in the journey and I thank you for taking time to visit me here.
Take a look around, make yourself at home and get involved with any of the feel-good events we have to look forward to as a collective.
As of December 2023 I am now a Certified E-Colour Practitioner, meaning I will be available to help those interested in beginning their own journey of self-discovery, learning to live with intention and start removing conflict in their work & personal relationships.
Thank you for checking out the site, remember to join the Mailing List and reach out if you have any questions or, if you’ve not done so yet, get the ball rolling by taking your E-Colours now.
Join this wonderful network of women, set up by my good wife Michelle, and get help and advice on all things Menopause and Perimenopause.
Talk about your symptoms, your remedies and simply exchange laughs at all the madness you’re finding out about yourself on a daily basis.
Admission into the group is by request only and, whilst any women can join, each request is double checked to make sure all of your private content is shared in a safe space.
Click here to request to join I’m Every Woman on Facebook.
Access to clean water is essential to life, yet millions of people around the world lack this basic resource. The “Have a Drink on Us Campaign” from Last Night a DJ Saved My Life is dedicated to building wells in Africa and India to address this critical need. Their goal for 2023 was to build 100 wells and provide clean water to those who need it most. We help them on their mission to make a positive impact on the lives of countless individuals and communities.
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If you feel that life would be so much better if it wasn’t for all the dickheads around you, then this event is definitely for you! Fill out your details below and look out for the auto-responder with further details and the PRIVATE Zoom link.
Feel free to invite your friends to this event, the more the merrier.
If you want to feel more optimistic and lead a more mindful lifestyle, taking stock of everything you appreciate in life on a daily basis may be a great exercise for you.
Spending just a few moments every evening is pretty painless and can actually be quite transformative if you make it a habit! Note down a few things you’re grateful for and, after a few weeks, you may start noticing the positive changes in your life.
Download the editable PDF using the link below. Choose from a Square image if you prefer or an oblong, which will give full screen on phones. Complete up to 10 things you are grateful for each day. Take a screenshot every day and add it to your camera roll or even rename the file and save it to a folder on your computer.
Many people have given up alcohol for a month but could you last for 100 days with no booze? Having completed this challenge in 2023 (and still alcohol free 12 months later), I can vouch for the benefits it has had on my life and many others who took part.
There will be a small team of people to support you along the way, providing tools to help you document your journey and look back on your achievements and improvements to your mind, body & soul. To participate, you must register.
Registration ends midnight, January 1st. If you aren’t registered, you are not part of the challenge.
If you’re reading this, the chances are because of a link you’ve been sent by myself or a friend.
“Why?” I hear you ask. Well, read on.
A few years ago, during lockdown, I remember being particularly frustrated at some d*ckhead or situation online. Enter Mark Wilkinson, Life Coach extraordinaire, who reached out to me and suggested I get involved with an online personality-awareness course he was holding. Long story short, that interaction completely changed the course of my life (and that is no exaggeration) and if you’re remotely interested I’ll tell you how, in a second.
If you found your own way here, fair play, however if you have been sent here then it’s more than likely because you’ll relate to some things in this list:
and so on…
OR… I sent you the link because I feel you are in a GOOD PLACE in life and want to join me on this journey!
I was sceptical at first. I thought Mark was trying to sell me something, when in fact he was simply reaching out to offer help, the same way I have reached out to you. If you want to know what happened after that initial encounter, you can begin to read about it here.
Take a look at the rest of the site, subscribe to the mailing list and drop me a message if you want to discuss any of this further.
My next event can be found here: DISCOVER E-COLOURS
Speak to Mark Wilkinson to find out more about E-Colours and how it can improve life in the workplace.
Brand new for 2024, this straight forward (but far from easy) challenge could go some way to changing your relationship with food forever.
By tracking/recording/making a note of EVERYTHING you eat, EVERY DAY, for A WHOLE MONTH, you’ll get a clear indication of just how you’re doing when it comes to the nutrition in your life. By having a clear record of everything you eat and drink, you are in THE BEST PLACE possible to begin to looking at ways to improve your diet and to understand why you are not losing or gaining weight as much as you’d like.
Follow this link to register for the challenge. It begins in January but you can start your own 30 Day Challenge whenever you feel, at any point in the year.
